My personal experience is not left out, I recount when my mother separated from my dad as young boy. My late mother was the breadwinner, providing for the education of nine children without any assistance from her husband. The education of her children became so burdensome, that she had to borrow money from the local cooperative only to spend the entire year repaying back with interest. When she could not keep up with our school fees, it affected her mental health, which eventually, led to her untimely death. We were left to face life individually after her demise.